I admit my love life is ‘nada’ (at the moment). Many have been asking why. And if I could just think aloud they would have heard from me “The hell, so what if I’ve got none? Does that mean I’m less pretty?.” The simplest explanation would be my ability to value the act of “refining”.
Refining is the term I used to describe my pre-selection period where in my daily life I would single out the ones with potential. So I guess it is safe to say but sad to admit that there aren’t any potential ones for the past years (at least those whom I have had mingled with and who resides in the Philippines).
I do intend to walk down the aisle – yes of course. I am not losing hope.
For now, I am valuing my state of being single and unattached as a blessing. 26 years with a total of less than a year of being in relationships (serious ones as flings don’t count). A feat worth celebrating in a sense that I get to spend time knowing myself, what I need and what I value. I am single and still counting. When the right one comes at the right time, I know I may have waited a bit long but there’s a certain feeling that I have well defined my right one and yes he really would be the one.
